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Podcast Episode 50: The Direct Approach

Hey man!

First, apologies if you’ve been having issues downloading episode #49. For some reason, I’m having challenges somewhere between iTunes and Hipcast (our podcast service). Bummer. We’re working on it though and should have it live SOON. But, you can also listen to it online right here.

I’ve decided to start doing some shorter episodes to balance out the longer, usual, format (good news?). In these, I will dive into one skill or topic and cover it in under 15 minutes, leaving you with a very clear value takeaway. This week? One of my favorite skills: the direct approach.

Imagine you see a gorgeous woman sitting alone, say, in a cafe, or a park. You are dying to approach her and engage. My direct approach is the perfect solution for this scenario. It’s elegant and clear, and doesn’t overly hit on her or cause her to feel weird after the fact.

You can literally be out there approaching women with this TODAY. It’s that easy.

The one challenge to doing a direct approach? It take BALLS to execute. It’s the ultimate “carpe diem”, and, because of thatit really, really works. (For more on “carpe diem”, see the show notes down below).

Enjoy!

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Show Notes:

In case you need any inspiration, go here. (RIP Robin Williams)

Also, to submit a question for me to answer on the podcast, click here

Enjoy!

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Podcast Episode 49: The Internal Factors of Attraction

Hey!

Podcast episode #49 is up and LIVE right now. I wrap up my talk about the “attraction factors” by covering all of the internal ways men create attraction in a woman. Last week (episode 48) was all about the external means of attraction – so things like social skills, body language, personal style, etc.

Be sure to listen to the both!

This week I cover all of the internal factors, so things like: pursuing an aim, masculinity, confidence and attitude.

There’s a lot of philosophy in this episode, but I also give you some actionable steps at the end – so be sure to balance all the info with action, as that’s where the real learning takes place.

If there is something you don’t “get” or are unwilling to do – will you post about that here? Then, I can address it which will help me teach more clearly, help you get the content and help the 20 other guys who have the SAME question as you. Can you do that for me?

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Listen Here:

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Show Notes:

Remember – an entirely new website, brand, and style is coming to the podcast and my world in general. So, stay tuned. Also, a brand new edition of the eBook will be launched at this time which will include an audiobook, and a version for your Kindle. It’s gonna be great!

This podcast is part three of a three part series, “The Attraction Factors”. To listen to part I, click here; part II, click here.

Also, to submit a question for me to answer on the podcast, click here

Enjoy!

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West Coast Tour

Hey buddy –

IIMG_2733‘m posting this from a cafe in N San Diego, overlooking the Pacific (almost looks like that sunset pic)…so beautiful I can barely type. If you are an NYC friend or client, I AM SORRY (not really).

So, I’m here for the entire month of February and early March, and am planning to host some informal meetups on the west coast. Primarily, I’d like to meetup with guys in San Diego, Los Angeles and San Francisco. I’d even be open to going to Portland and Seattle, if there’s interest.

I haven’t done this sort of thing in a LONG time and my goal here is to present some very new ideas to people, things that have helped me evolve past ‘pick-up’ and into a long-term, healthy marriage that is really everything I’ve ever wanted. Some of these ideas are broad-sweeping and very philosophical and others are very, very precise and specific. I will leave significant time at the end to field questions from guys too.

My perspective is rather unique: having been at Project Hollywood and in “The Game”, I’ve seen pick-up at its best and know it as well as anyone. I’ve also left all of that behind…and I think you’ll want to know why, and how, I did it.

The only charge would be a $5 fee to help me cover the room costs – that’s it.

If you’re interested, can you do the following for me?

1) Send me an email (<–click that link)
2) Say “I’m in” &;
3) Let me know where you’re located

Based on this interest, I’ll be deciding on a schedule. Make sense?

Hope to hear from you, and to meet you, soon.

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PS – stay tuned here for a posting of the exact schedule etc.

PPS – I’ll be doing this in NYC in the spring, and beyond…stand by for more on that too!

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HTGAG 048: The External Factors in Attraction

Hey man!

So, session #47 was kind of a mind dump eh? Sorry for that…I realized afterwards that it was a massive amount of content.

So, I’ve decided to break this topic of “The Attraction Factors” into two parts to give me the space to dive into real detail here to hopefully help you understand this, and – most importantly – to take massive action with the proper framework in mind.

So, this week is where I focus on the external aspects of attraction, namely:

Your body
Personal Style
Social Skills

And, for each of these I will give you an exact action step to take to get you moving in the right direction. Lots of focused content here, with tons of “to do” stuff which I know you love (guys love lists).

Action is key – and there’s plenty for you here if you really want to improve your dating life and get crazy good with women (that’s you isn’t it?).

If there is something you don’t “get” or are unwilling to do – will you post about that here? Then, I can address it which will help me teach more clearly, help you get the content and help the 20 other guys who have the SAME question as you. Can you do that for me?

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Listen Here:

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Show Notes:

Here’s a link to the Tim Ferriss podcast with Anthony Robbins (amazing!): Tim Ferriss interviews Tony Robbins

Why not to wait until you are 46 to pursue your dreams: My regrets as a 46-year old

Here’s where to grab your version of “How to Get a Girlfriend”, my ebook: “How to Get a Girlfriend” by Stephen Nash

Finally, this podcast is part two of a three part series, “The Attraction Factors”. To listen to part I, click here; part III, click here.

Enjoy!

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HTGAG 047: The Attraction Factors

Hey man –

Ever hear this from a woman?

I’ve just got too much going on now

I think we’re going in different directions

I’m busy

I’m getting back together with my ex

MANY guys hear this, and often. The reason I know is that I get countless emails which ask me “what should I do when she says ___ ?”

The issues is the above phrases are really code. What she’s REALLY saying is:

I’m not attracted to you

It’s become clear to me over the years that there is a huge gap in understanding amongst most men as to what “attraction” truly is and what they can do to become more attractive to women.

I’ve been thinking about this a lot recently and have come up with a paradigm I call the “attraction factors” which I outline in this podcast. Here, you’ll hear me discuss ALL the factors which go into creating the feeling of attraction in a woman and those you should focus on right now which provide the most leverage in terms of time and effort to get great results, and quickly.

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Listen Here:

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Show Notes:

Check out clip of David Deida I mention here: Advanced Lovemaking with David Deida

Here’s a link to the free version of “As A Man Thinketh” from Project Gutenberg: As A Man Thinketh by James Allen

To find me on Facebook, go here: Stephen Nash on Facebook

Finally, this podcast is part one of a three part series, “The Attraction Factors”. To listen to part II, click here, part III, click here.

Enjoy!

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HTGAG 046: The Mark Manson Interview

Hey man –

Here’s a life for you:

Struggle with women, then apply yourself and get really, really good at it;
Begin teaching others how to get good at it, and build a nice business around helping others;
Become location independent, traveling the world, and expanding your mind in the process;
Meet a great woman to share it all with, building a life together that is expanded by the presence of the other.

This is the life of Mark Manson, former PUA, current (sometimes) coach, entrepreneur, speaker, writer and traveler. And this week, we explore all of these topics and more in the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast.

As you can see, these podcasts are now taking on the “long-form” format, meaning that we are spending more time with guests and really digging into relevant topics for men seeking to improve their relationships with women and with life.

I think you’ll be pretty happy about that when listening to my conversation with Mark.

Listen Here:

Show Notes:

Check out Mark’s dating advice book “Models: Attract Women Through Honesty” by Clicking Here

Also, be sure to download this free pdf from his site called: “3 Ideas That Can Change Your Life”

Also, listen to him on the Tropical MBA Podcast by Clicking Here (one of my fave podcasts btw)

Download my eBook right here:

How to Get a Girlfriend by Stephen Nash

Enjoy!

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HTGAG 045: The Tynan Interview

Hey there –

If you’ve been listening to the podcast recently, you’re aware of my endless fascination with lifestyle.  Developing a dynamic and exciting lifestyle are key components to attractive women, and none has tested the edges of lifestyle more than my very good friend Tynan.

Tynan, aka Herbal from “The Game”, is a self-professed adventurer, entrepreneur, minimalist and experimenter.  He lives in an RV in San Francisco (when he isn’t traveling the world) where he lives and runs his new business, the blogging platform, SETT.

Tynan and I have been friends since Project Hollywood, but what he’s doing now far exceeds pick-up.  To me, he’s one of a few people now consciously testing the limits of how flexible, nimble and free one can truly be.

He’s not actively dating, per se, but his point of view and value system are something I – and many others – could learn a lot from. Also, by exposing you to someone like Tynan who is probably living his life in ways that you’ve never before dreamed possible, perhaps it could inspire you to take some risks, pursue adventure, and step out of your box as well.

I hope you enjoy my conversation with Tynan.

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(PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

Listen Here:

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Show Notes:

Tynan’s blog where he posts 2x/week:

Tynan.com

Here is a link to the Rich Roll Podcast with Evan Rock, another fascinating example of what’s possible now in this world at this time:

Rich Roll Podcast – Evan Rock

Download my eBook right here:

How to Get a Girlfriend by Stephen Nash

Enjoy!

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HTGAG 044: Solo Session – the Validation Gap

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Hope your summer’s rocking.  Per the usual, I’m slamming here with work – it’s all good, but super busy!

I had an awesome time with a client here in NYC recently, and in the conversation, we got to talking about “the gap”, or, as I’m now referring to it:

The Validation Gap

This is the super critical space between what you say or do with a woman and how she responds.  Most guys seek validation from women, and constantly seek to fill this validation gap with “routines” or “better routines” or “obsessing about what to say/email/voicemail/text her…” – sound familiar?

This is the death trap for men and you MUST find a better way of filling the gap or you will unconsciously seek validation from women…which kills your chances with them.

So, this episode describe the symptoms of seeking validation from women AND what to do to become internally validated.

And, this internal validation is the key, the rosetta stone of attraction – which most men never, ever discover.

Not you though!  Listen in and feel free to comment below.

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

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Show Notes:

Here is a link to Evan Rock’s Youtube Channel:

Evan Rock – FruitZen

And a link to the totally awesome Blood Orange’s Uncle Ace

My eBook right here:

How to Get a Girlfriend by Stephen Nash

Enjoy!

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HTGAG 043: The Adam Lyons Interview

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Hey man!

Been a few weeks since I released a podcast….LONG story, but it basically boils down to technical difficulties.

First, my desktop computer went down for the count 2 weeks back. I’ve since massively upgraded to a laptop, but that set my timing back a bit. Then, I had to figure out Garage Band again…which took a week or so.  In the midst of all that, I’ve launched something entirely different here in New York which took a considerable amount of my focus and energy.

That’s all behind me now, and I’m delighted to break out a brand new How to Get a Girlfriend podcast episode!

This one’s featuring the incomparable Adam Lyons, aka AFC Adam, who is easily the most positive and upbeat guy I’ve ever spoken with.

Incredibly, our conversation happened as he was heading to the doctor with his now pregnant girlfriend – so there was a bit of excitement on the other end of the line.

Anyway, enjoy this one man – it’s terrific, massive value given from Adam (ie – why you should throw a speed-dating event), and tons to learn by osmosis via his energy and attitude.

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

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Here is a direct link to Adam’s YouTube channel:

The Dating Coach (Adam Lyons) on YouTube

Enjoy!

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HTGAG 042: The Alex Allman Interview

After a two-week hiatus, the “How to Get a Girlfriend” Podcast is back!

(with thanks to MicroCenter and Apple, my computer is running strong again)

This week, I’m super psyched to share my recent conversation with Alex Allman…a guy I’ve known for some time, who helps a lot of guys with something most of us aren’t necessarily TALKING about, but all are THINKING about. And that mysterious “thing” is:

SEX

Alex lays out his journey with women, and with sex, in this very candid interview plus he talks about:

  • How to last longer in bed
  • The ideal “frame” around which to have sex in a long-term, committed relationship
  • Elements of masculinity which trigger sexual attraction in women

And TONS more…it’s over an hour long, and jamming with content.  As I’m sure you will agree, Alex is hugely passionate about his work, and is a pleasure to talk, and listen, to.

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

Listen Here:

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Show Notes:

Here are three great ways to learn more from Alex:

Unleash The Beast – Sex Positions & techniques to make women think you have a larger penis, great material on showing up with powerful, masculine sexuality, the magic bullet method for lasting longer PLUS tons more…check it out!

Command & Control Ejaculation Domination – Have Alex teach you how to have non-ejaculatory orgasms, great for guys who suffer from premature ejaculation, plus more.

Revolutionary Sex – Alex’s main, “be good in bed” program.  

Enjoy!

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