Join the Movement
Join me now on my 10-day "Master Class" ecourse and learn how to meet more women, radiate confidence, flirt like a man, escalate, rock the first date...and more!


HTGAG 042: The Alex Allman Interview

After a two-week hiatus, the “How to Get a Girlfriend” Podcast is back!

(with thanks to MicroCenter and Apple, my computer is running strong again)

This week, I’m super psyched to share my recent conversation with Alex Allman…a guy I’ve known for some time, who helps a lot of guys with something most of us aren’t necessarily TALKING about, but all are THINKING about. And that mysterious “thing” is:

SEX

Alex lays out his journey with women, and with sex, in this very candid interview plus he talks about:

  • How to last longer in bed
  • The ideal “frame” around which to have sex in a long-term, committed relationship
  • Elements of masculinity which trigger sexual attraction in women

And TONS more…it’s over an hour long, and jamming with content.  As I’m sure you will agree, Alex is hugely passionate about his work, and is a pleasure to talk, and listen, to.

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

Listen Here:

alex copy copy

Show Notes:

Here are three great ways to learn more from Alex:

Unleash The Beast - Sex Positions & techniques to make women think you have a larger penis, great material on showing up with powerful, masculine sexuality, the magic bullet method for lasting longer PLUS tons more…check it out!

Command & Control Ejaculation Domination – Have Alex teach you how to have non-ejaculatory orgasms, great for guys who suffer from premature ejaculation, plus more.

Revolutionary Sex - Alex’s main, “be good in bed” program.  

Enjoy!

signature

PS – I would love it if you would leave an honest review on iTunes (particularly if it’s a good one!). Reviews help the show get more noticed and helps spread the good news to more and more guys out there.  Please click here to leave a review.  Thanks!

0 comments

HTGAG 041: The Paul Janka Interview

Hey buddy -

Alas…the Paul Janka interview.

I thoroughly enjoyed this chat, mostly because Paul’s life and my own track so similarly:

~ We hit Pick-Up hard and found massive success with it

~ We then met someone we really liked and transitioned into a long-term relationship

~ He’s engaged and I’m married…

So, what’s it like looking back on a successful dating life now being in a lasting, happy relationship?

How did this happen and what are our takeaways from this path?

The one “biggie” you’ll hear about in this conversation is all about setting your terms in life, and then standing by them.

It’s the essence of integrity AND the key to lasting, enduring relationships.

That and so much more are covered in this really excellent chat I had with Paul Janka.

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

Listen Here:

ArtworkS041

Show Notes:

Paul on the Today Show

Paul on Dr. Phil

Paul’s website: www.Paul Janka.com

Enjoy!

signature

PS – I would love it if you would leave an honest review on iTunes (particularly if it’s a good one!). Reviews help the show get more noticed and helps spread the good news to more and more guys out there.  Please click here to leave a review.  Thanks!

0 comments

HTGAG 040: The VALUE Episode….

What’s up man!

The latest and greatest podcast is LIVE and it’s all about the ever elusive “VALUE”.  What is it and how to cultivate it, for real?

And, have you ever heard of a DHV? (Demonstration of Higher Value)

No? Yes? Maybe?

In this podcast I discuss how to build REAL value (so you don’t have to “demo” it ever, at all, in any situation), and then how that naturally attracts awesome, beautiful women TO you naturally…

I also list the 5 ways you can build this natural value today. I warn you though, building the real thing takes time and effort. Trust me, the results are well worth it!

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

Listen Here:

ArtworkS040

Show Notes:

TV: Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee (Jerry Seinfeld)

Book: Felix Dennis “How to Get Rich”

Enjoy!

signature

PS – I would love it if you would leave an honest review on iTunes (particularly if it’s a good one!). Reviews help the show get more noticed and helps spread the good news to more and more guys out there.  Please click here to leave a review.  Thanks!

0 comments

HTGAG 039: Setting Up Your “Passive Female Stream”, Masculinity, Relationships & More…

If you listened to last week’s podcast, you might recall me using the phrase “passive female stream”. This refers to the system which you can consciously setup using lifestyle and social circle skills. It ends any need for you ever to approach women (unless you want to), and brings women naturally TO you on an ongoing basis…

Well, this week I expand upon this & discuss:

  • How “dating” turns into relationships;
  • How to grow masculinity, and why it’s even MORE important when in a relationship;
  • The 5 “Musts” for your home that will help you with women

Plus, some impressive footage from an old friend…

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

Listen Here:

ArtworkS038

Show Notes:

Book: Sex at Dawn (Ryan & Jetha)

Video: Owen/Tyler Durden’s impressive social skills

Enjoy!

signature

PS – I would love it if you would leave an honest review on iTunes (particularly if it’s a good one!). Reviews help the show get more noticed and helps spread the good news to more and more guys out there.  Please click here to leave a review.  Thanks!

0 comments

HTGAG 038: Strategies for KILLER First Dates & More…

Hey man!

Podcast Session #38 is LIVE.  Here’s what you’re going to learn:

  • My patented “kiss test”
  • How to get her number (SUPER easy and intuitive)
  • How to set-up that first date so it speaks FOR you (so you don’t have to)

& Tons More…

It’s the “How to Get a Girlfriend” Podcast, Session #38 – all about KILLER first dates, getting numbers, and the ultimate dating strategy defined (which should guide your every move).

Also, I give you an exercise which gives you your power on a date – which most guys will never do, which kills their chances of meeting the right women and causes them to waste hours (and dollars) on dates that are going nowhere.

Don’t you want to learn that?  Of course you do!

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Be sure to do the exercise and post your experiences with it on the blog here – I WILL RESPOND!

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

Listen Here:

ArtworkS038

Show Notes:

Music: Fitz And The Tantrums, “The Walker”

Music: Phantogram, “When I’m Small”

Video: 50 Cent’s First Pitch at Citi Field

Enjoy!

signature

PS – I would love it if you would leave an honest review on iTunes (particularly if it’s a good one!). Reviews help the show get more noticed and helps spread the good news to more and more guys out there.  Please click here to leave a review.  Thanks!

0 comments

HTGAG 037: Why “Connecting” is the Holy Grail to Getting Dates

What’s up man!

So happy to share podcast session #37 with you and it’s all about “connecting” with women…

Before you toss that away as something unimportant, would you be surprised to know that connecting is THE most important part of any relationship…to HER?

And, when you first meet her, there is a skillful way of connecting with women and a ton of unskillful ways…

This week’s podcast is all about learning the simple, skillful ways of connecting with women – particularly in that first conversation – which guarantees getting that all-important first date with her.

So, if you’ve struggled with not converting those first interactions with women into living, breathing DATES…then this is the podcast for you.

+ I talk at length about female psychology, storytelling, security, kino, wide rapport (and how to avoid DEEP rapport – danger!), plus tons more…

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Be sure to do the exercise and post your experiences with it on the blog here – I WILL RESPOND!

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

Listen Here:

How to Get a Girlfriend Session 37

Show Notes:

Soundtrack: The Secret Life of Walter Mitty

Film: The Punk Singer: A Film About Kathleen Hanna

Books: Autobiography of a Yogi

Enjoy!

signature

PS – I would love it if you would leave an honest review on iTunes (particularly if it’s a good one!). Reviews help the show get more noticed and helps spread the good news to more and more guys out there.  Please click here to leave a review.  Thanks!

4 comments

HTGAG 036: The “Attraction” Episode

Hey man!

Hey Stephen, what do I need to say to keep the conversation rolling with “her”
Hey Stephen, what does “attraction” mean?
Hey Stephen, what do I say after the opener?

These are very, very common questions amongst guys who are serious about becoming better with women and dating. I hear them weekly.

This week’s podcast dives deeply into the topic of “attraction” and specifically covers the 5 mistakes guys make when interacting with women. We’re going to cover A LOT this week, so get ready!

(Note: if you’re a guy who falls into the “friend zone” a lot with women, this episode should be super helpful to you)

You’re going to learn a lot, namely:

  • Flirting
  • Baiting (my favorite)
  • Body Language

& more…

So, if you’ve ever wanted to learn more about how to talk to women in a way that helps her feel more attracted and into you sexually, you will want to listen to this podcast a few times.

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Be sure to do the exercise and post your experiences with it on the blog here – I WILL RESPOND!

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

Listen Here:

ArtworkS036

Show Notes:

Podcast: Smart Passive Income with Pat Flynn

Music: The Naked & Famous, “Young Blood”

Music: Empire of the Sun, “Walking on a Dream” (look it up on Spotify too)

Enjoy!

signature

PS – I would love it if you would leave an honest review on iTunes (particularly if it’s a good one!). Reviews help the show get more noticed and helps spread the good news to more and more guys out there.  Please click here to leave a review.  Thanks!

0 comments

HTGAG 035: The Meeting Women Episode

Hello Podcast Listener!

There is one “line” that, when used, will ALWAYS lead to a date with a new woman…know what that line is?

Would it surprise you to know that it is also not an opener?

This week’s podcast is all about meeting new women. I outline the three “ways” to meet a new woman, namely:

  • Online Dating
  • Cold Approaches
  • Warm Approaches

“Warm” approaches are by far the BEST way to meet a new woman.  I also demo both the teaser opener and the direct approach (my personal favorite cold approach technique) AND reveal the single best line to have ever been used when meeting new women.

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

Be sure to do the exercise and post your experiences with it on the blog here – I WILL RESPOND!

Thanks for tuning in and enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio)

How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast Session 035

Show Notes:

Music: Foster the People, Coming of Age

Podcasts: Tropical MBA & The Rich Roll Podcast

Travel: SAN DIEGO

Post what you’re listening to – music, podcasts, whatever – below.  And if you’re in SD this weekend, give a shout out man!

Until next time…

signature

PS – I would love it if you would leave an honest review on iTunes (particularly if it’s a good one!). Reviews help the show get more noticed and helps spread the good news to more and more guys out there.  Please click here to leave a review.  Thanks!

 

0 comments

HTGAG 034: The 90% “Game”

Hey there!

If your world doesn’t naturally EXPAND a woman’s existing world, you have zero chance of forming a relationship with her

I just said that on this week’s podcast – all about The 90% Game.  Makes sense right?  If your life doesn’t invite her to expand, why would she want to be with you?

The answer is – she wouldn’t…

This week’s podcast covers the foundation to having a successful dating and relationship life.  These skills MUST be implemented before you start thinking about approaching new women, or building up your social skill set.  These “big 3″ pieces comprise what I call – The 90% Game.

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

What is The 90% Game?

  • It starts with your aim, purpose or mission in life;
  • We then focus on expressing this aim in your lifestyle;
  • Finally, how to meet new people forming a more powerful, dynamic social circle.

These three KEY elements come together as The 90% Game, which is the most important (and most overlooked) aspect to most guy’s dating life…

It’s all explained below – so, enjoy! (PS – Official “Show Notes” are below the audio).

Listen Here:

ArtworkS034

Show Notes:

Music: The Wombats, “1996″

My new favorite coffee: Bulletproof Coffee

Post what you are listening to, watching and imbibing below.  Also, if you live in San Diego, Thailand or India…give a shout out!

signature

PS – I would love it if you would leave an honest review on iTunes (particularly if it’s a good one!). Reviews help the show get more noticed and helps spread the good news to more and more guys out there.  Please click here to leave a review.  Thanks!

2 comments

HTGAG 033: The Podcast Restart

Hey!

I’m so excited to announce that the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast is BACK! The first (next) episode has gone live and I sincerely hope you will check it out.

Note: To subscribe via iTunes or RSS, please click here.

In this episode:

  • What the heck I’ve been doing for 5 years (since my last podcast episode)?  Why I’m bringing the podcast back?  What’s going on now in my life?;
  • The “Matrix of Attraction” – I cover a huge mistake I see guys making left and right which completely destroys their chances of taking that first interaction with a woman to actually getting a date with her.  It involves understanding how women get attracted to you, and what SUPER simple technique you can include in your conversations that will push her over the edge to really wanting to see you again;
  • I close this episode with a body language exercise designed to help you TODAY up the quality of women you are naturally attracting and how to instantly tell if your body language is working for you, or against…

Listen Here:

How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast Session 033

Show Notes:

Link to the article I wrote post break-up entitled: How to Survive a Break-up

Link to the preview of the film “Drift” which I’m totally digging (currently streaming on Netflix): Drift Preview

The Jezabels “Endless Summer” (currently on my gym playlist – it rocks!): “Endless Summer”

Remember – if you want to post your notes on the body language experiment, do so below – I will respond there.

Thanks!

signature

 

0 comments